can you turn a uncommitted, platonic male into a husband?

Question

will a uncommitted, platonic male ever be a good husband type for me? I do get emotional and need his support a lot, he has shown in the past that he can't handle that.

I dunno what to expect, if hes going to change for me or I am just dreaming my future away?

Answer 1

Clearly he's not going to change, you should get someone better! you deserve better

Answer 2

You answered your own question. You said he is not committed, he's a platonic friend. No way will he be a husband. You are wasting your time with him. I'm sure he enjoys your company, but that doesn't mean you should stick around to see if he will propose. That's way too far fetched. Please don't waste your time on someone who isn't even giving the slightest clue to whether he likes you or not. You can find someone who is willing to committ without taking so much from you (emotionally, physically, and financially).

Answer 3

He wouldn't and couldn't change and you'd be wrong expecting him to. He's not the man for you.

Find someone else who's everything you need.

Answer 4

To answer the title, No, keep looking.

Answer 5

you can't change him, he has got to want to change and from the sounds of things he doesn't.