ok, hear me out. there is one thing that an emo boy will hate the most. and its what u said in the wrighting "that's not a good start if i wanna be emo". You WANNA BE an emo. if u suddenly turn emo, the boy will definatly know ur just a wannabe emo. so AVOID doing that at all costs. oh, and as for ur friend, tell her not to do that to save her embarrasment. dressing up like an emo doesnt make u emo. in fact it would just make her a massive wannabe. and the emo boys wud think "y have them normal girls suddenly turned into wannabees.". us emos hate wannabees. and u r just trying to change for a boy who if u go out with, you would probably break up with in a month, and at the same time u would have affected a lot of people around u. u hav to think about the impact against other people too.
also, emo boys dont just like emo girls (like me for example, i dont just like emo girls and neither do my friends). i date whoever i want but do not change to do so. if the emo boys only like emo girls, then they r probably just using them as accesories to luk gud. a true emo boy/girl wud go out with whoever they like and not worry about it, because being emo is all about expressing yourself and feelings through how you dress and through the music that you like. and if u do turn into a wannabe suddenly, u wud have no idea really what they r talking about. mostly about music that u probably havent even heard of!!! u probably wont relate very gud to them. the best u wud probably get out of them might be " i like your clothes"
oh and if u do actually talk to the guys and they turn u down, hold ur head up high cuz ther are plenty of emo boys in the world or maybe even hotter normal boys out there!!! be who u r and dont change for ANYONE!!
:)
(a wannabe is another word for poser by the way)