how can I convince my partner?

Question

I want him to have wonderful, sparkling blue eyes. He has got grey-green eyes and I don't like his eyes. We have been married for 12 years but I have never really looked twice at his eyes. He is really hot but I want him to have better eyes so all can see how good looking my partner is. Partner doesn't want to wear contacts. He says they hurt too much. How can I make him wear them? How can I convince him that he will please me much more if he wears them? How can I make him understand that he will become much more attractive and sexy?

Answer 1

Oh man! I meant to thumb UP Builder Dave!!!



I agree! How can you be so shallow? I think he needs to dump you.

Answer 2

Sorry, but that's a tad selfish, don't you think? Of course you want great eyes, but since your partner does not feel comfortable with contacts, then love him for who he is or find someone else who will not love you as much as your partner apparently does.

Hubby has a lot I want changed, I have a lot he wants changed. But until one or the other decides to change we will be forever more.

Answer 3

I totally agree with "builder dave". Hello, if you can not appriecate your partner the way he is, that is just cruel. It is not his weight or something like that. It is just his eyes. Let him, decide. It is not your choice, it is his. Let him make it, himself. You should beleive that he is the most attractive and sexy guy around, but you don't. Tell him, you screwed up, and are sorry. Tell him that you do not deserve a guy as special as him. Let him find someone who will truly appreciate him. Grow up!

Answer 4

Sorry to be rude, but dude...You are pathetic. I think I would have to leave you if you tried to make me change something that God gave me. If you can't accept him as he is, then you need to find someone else that is willing to be what you want him to be. What if he wanted you to have plastic sugery and totally change your entire face...whould you do it? I can't believe I am even answering you. You really sound like a shallow person.

Answer 5

How very very weird.



Dude, he's with you, if you want that forever stop complaining about his eyes.



If he's willing to try contacts because YOU don't like his eye colour... well it shows who's more into the relationship.

Answer 6

Maybe you make a comprimise and just propose that once in a while he put them on for a special night in bed.



If contacts bother him don't pressure him to wear them all the time to please you. See the beauty he has every day naturally.

Answer 7

He definitely needs to make a change. A good start would be to find a bf that appreciates him as he is.



That's OK Ms. Funny, I've done it too. Seems to happen mostly when I'm liquored up. May I assume that's the reason for you? They shouldn't put those thumbs so close together, huh?

Answer 8

so let me get this straight, you want advice on how to con your partner into doing something that hurts to change his appearance to please you more?



thats not right, and if his eyes are so bad why have you been with him for 12 years?

Answer 9

THIS IS THE MOST RIDICULOUS THING I'VE EVER HEARD IN MY ENTIRE LIFE!

Answer 10

lasix.