I love my girlfriend and want to do something special for her?

Question

Hey :) okay, so my best friend of 9 years is a lesbian and I was absolutely head-over-heals in love with her and she didn't know it because she had no idea that I am bisexual. But I FINALLY got up the courage to tell her, and to make a long story short, we started dating officially today :)

Anyway, now to my question... I want to do something special for her, but I don't know what! Her birthday is coming up in a few days and for the past few years I have done a variety of things (one year I threw her a surprise party, and for the past few years I have set up going out to dinner with all of our friends). However, this year I want to do something special just us, I definitely want to take her out to eat but I want to do something else as well. I am making her a scrapbook of all the memories we have had together throughout the years as friends (sort of a symbol of our new relationship), and I am getting her the new ipod, but to do something else as well... I want it to be something different and creative that she will never expect. Does anyone have any suggestions for me?

Answer 1

CONGRATULATIONS !!!!

You must be flying high on happiness. That's so great.



One year I dressed myself up in a make-shift "glamor" outfit with heels, spider-web stockings, a fun feather boa.....You get the idea.

I played up the part too. She was pretty surprised since I'm kind of boyish.



Have lots of FUN -- the time yours.

Answer 2

You could take a picnic to the beach, or take her somewhere with a good view and bring a sleeping bag for cuddling. Just do something simple where you can be alone and appreciate each other. But if you're looking for a gift to get her, I suggest you should make something yourself, like sewing her a pillow, or making her soap/bathsalts. Hope all goes well. (:

Answer 3

I suggest something sentimental and sweet. Dinner at your favorite restaurant is nice...somewhere very dim. Then... you can do what my girlfriend and I did for our anniversary... I surprised her with a fondue set and we made cheese and chocolate fondue with a variety of different things to dip it in (cheese: celery, apples, broccoli, bread/chocolate: strawberries, oranges, marshmallows, pound cake, etc . The main part was the chocolate because she loves chocolate. It was nice and romantic, but very simple. A fondue set is not that expensive either... $20??

Answer 4

if she has a good sense of humor you can get all of ur good friends to ambush her with nerf guns when you pic her up then you all go see a movie of something then just the two of you go to diner.