Question:
what do you think about the fact that 'straight' women watch les porn and les wmn wtch gay prn?
2013-04-06 15:20:41 UTC
what do you think about the fact that 'straight' women watch lesbian porn and 'lesbian' women watch gay male porn?
We straight guys love lesbian porn, and gay guys love gay male porn. Men in general, gays or straight ones, watch porn according to our sexual orientation, there are very very very few exceptions. Gay men in general are not interested at all in watching lesbian porn. Same with straight guys and the gay male porn.
BUT with women, things are absolutely different. Thousands, maybe millions of "straight" love to watch lesbian porn, and plenty of lesbian women love to watch gay male porn. This is so confusing, and my opinion about this, is that women in general are bisexual. Only men can be straight or gay at all.
I don't know why, but females are bisexual.
Ten answers:
waggy
2013-04-07 13:49:49 UTC
I think you are getting an idea in your head and not prepared to let it shift for anything.



I think the perception is that women can be more in tune with their sexuality, as a general rule and in theory more open to exploration with that. However as with most generalisations there are exceptions and plenty of them!



For on a personal level I have been on the receiving end of some quite homophobic beliefs and opinions and I have found these to be all the harsher from women. Women can on one hand be seemingly very able to explore their sexuality, perhaps more so than men. However when it comes to men exploring their sexuality women can be much harder on men then other men.



So, on the basis of I'm not really sure where you are going with this question. I would beware of generalisations, because they can stop you from really understanding how people tick, if indeed that is what you are trying to do.



However I think what your understanding is that women are more 'flexible' in their sexuality outlook then men. In a way it is a cultural thing where men should be 'breadwinners' and all 'manly' i.e not exploring any other sexuality than wanting women. Whereas some men are perceived as liking to see women with women but revolted when it comes to man-on-man. So runs the 'male stereotype.'



Following that line of thought it is natural to assume women will be more 'amenable' to all the variations that sexuality exploration can bring. However be careful about making assumptions.



To use myself as an example I can see attractiveness in the female form, but I know that what really makes me complete is the male. Perhaps you could see elements of 'bisexuality' there as I don't find women revolting and yet I have a preference for men. Some could argue that is down to the kind of relationships I have had in my life? Maybe, but whilst I never shut myself off to possibilities I have never gone down the road of intimate relations with a woman because it really doesn't float my boat.



I guess the resolution to all this is sexuality is a personal thing. If a person is totally honest sexuality rarely ticks all the boxes our 'stereotypes' and opinions of what sexuality labels should be. So, I don't think what you are saying holds true for most people. Partly because of what I have just said.
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2016-05-16 21:32:02 UTC
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MzCalypso
2013-04-06 15:31:05 UTC
I think almost anybody can watch almost anything and enjoy it, if they are not anxious about what it might say about them.



Women OFTEN get dragged along to whatever a man wants to see. If a guy decides that XYZ Topless serves great steaks, a woman is likely to get her dinner served with a side order of breasts whether or not she likes it. If Boyfriend wants to see some stupidly violent and sexist movie and she wants to see something that involves emotions, guess what film they see on their date. If she wants to sit and watch TV with Boyfriend during football, or basketball, or baseball, or hockey season ... she has to learn to appreciate what HE wants to watch.



Just writing this makes me SO glad I have a wife, not a husband...



Women have more or less been forced into learning to at least endure whatever men want to see.



Many women are also far less threatened by other orientations than most men are. (There are rabid female homophobes, don't get me wrong, but far fewer than male.) Thus, a woman can watch a lesbian film and appreciate how the women feel, she can watch a gay film and appreciate the pretty men and the insight into male character, or she can watch het and identify with the woman.



Het men? Just mention that a film has gay characters and half of them will clear the room, metaphorically clutching their jewels.



Straight men are afraid of watching gay porn and finding out it turns them on.



I think most HUMANS are bisexual, but more women are brave enough to admit it. And most men are more nervous about their sexual identity.



I think it's more that men in general are
Envy Is My God
2013-04-06 15:25:28 UTC
Sexual orientation is not always a deciding factor in the porn you watch. Heterosexual women who watch lesbian porn are NOT bisexual, Lesbians that watch gay porn are also NOT bisexual, I am a bisexual woman, I only like gay male porn. Lots of women simply do not watch porn at all, you do not know someone's sexual orientation better than they do.
LolaBee
2013-04-06 16:19:14 UTC
I think in some circumstances, the fantasy is about watching something you absolutely can't be a part of. As a gay woman, I can never experience sex as a gay man, as a straight man, I could never experience sex as a lesbian. I kind of disagree with your statement about women being unable to be completely straight. I would consider myself completely gay, if some girlies only find guys attractive, they can be totally straight if thats how they are.



And you guys do watch porn that is out of sync with your orientation. If you are watching lesbian porn, that is out of sync as you are not lesbians. Being a lesbian is not about finding women attractive. It is about being female and finding women attractive.
?
2013-04-06 16:28:29 UTC
I know MANY MANY MANY straight women who get off to gay male porn,...your a guy so you probably have no idea that fantasies women have lol.



I also know many straight women who fantasize about having sex with gay men..some of them want it with 2 gay men.



I cannot explain it myself, but I have thought about it with my friends whom have these fantasies and the most we could come up with is that women might be attracted to both the highly dominate man that shows his dominance over another men (gay porn is hard and nasty) and also attracted to the submissive man taking the receiving role ...probably showing his more maternal side women can affiliate with.. basically the submissive man is like a women in a mans body.. something many women fantasize about lol.



Ive watched gay porn with my friends , we where all drunk lol but we where highly impressed , all that testosterone really gets them going.
?
2013-04-06 16:07:15 UTC
That is not true, lesbian women are disgusted by gay male porn. I think you are getting lesbian and bisexual mixed up. It is okay, most people do.
2016-11-05 04:50:04 UTC
I evaluate virtually somebody can watch virtually something and enjoy it, in the event that they don't seem hectic approximately what it would say approximately them. women often get dragged alongside to something a guy needs to confirm. If a guy makes a decision that XYZ Topless serves passable steaks, a woman is companies to get her dinner served with a factor order of breasts despite if or now not she likes it. If Boyfriend needs to confirm some stupidly violent and sexist action picture and he or she needs to confirm something that contains thoughts, guess what action picture they see on their date. If she needs to take a seat and watch television with Boyfriend in the time of soccer, or basketball, or baseball, or hockey season ... She must be knowledgeable to relish what HE needs to observe. only penning this makes me SO mushy i've got a much better half, not a husband... women have extra or less been compelled into examining to on the least bear something adult males could see. many ladies are additionally a techniques much less threatened by applying applying different orientations than maximum adult males are. (There are rabid woman homophobes, don't get me incorrect, yet some distance fewer than male.) as a effect, a woman can watch a lesbian action picture and relish how the girls believe, she would manage to be waiting to observe a gay action picture and understand the attractive adult males and the perception into male character, or she would manage to be waiting to observe het and set up with the lady. Het adult males? only element out that a action picture has gay characters and a million/2 of of them will clean the room, metaphorically clutching their jewels. at as quickly as adult males are terrified of watching gay porn and gaining expertise of out it turns them on. i think maximum folk are bisexual, yet extra women are courageous adequate to admit it. And maximum adult males are extra beneficial worried approximately their sexual identity. i think of it is extra that adult males lots of the time are
?
2013-04-07 07:05:29 UTC
You're wrong. Nothing but assumptions. You ARE funny.

All women prefer animal porn, hedgehogs being particularly popular with older women.
?
2013-04-06 15:22:32 UTC
Females can be bisexual, but not all females are bisexual. I don't know where you are getting your facts from, but you are wrong.


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