How could gay men possibly not be attracted to women and boobs?

Question

Please don't insult me, or call me a homophobe, bigot, just because I'm trying to learn about something I don't understand.

I just don't see how a gay man possibly could not be attracted to a woman, especially her boobs. As a straight man, a pair of boobs is like one of the most beautiful thing on earth. When a woman has a nice pair, no matter how hard I try to look away, my eyes just magnetize to them. I could sit around all day just looking at boobs. In public, I glance or stare at practically every pair of attractive boobs I see, it never stops. If a boob were to pop out, I would stop in my tracks and commit that event to memory for years.

Now I understand gay people have a bit of a mix up in their brain, but I just don't see how it can be THAT mixed up. So far mixed up that you don't like women or boobs. I mean, what happens when you look at a pair of boobs. Is there really no interest?

Again, not trying to judge. I just don't see how its possible.

Answer 1

That's like a maggot asking you how you can possibly not think feces tastes good.



Maggots are designed to like the taste of poop. People are not.

Straight guys are designed to like boobs. Gay guys are not.



This is self-explanatory.

Answer 2

Of course you don't see how it's possible. You're not a gay man, so why would you? You haven't been on the other side, so to speak, and have no idea what goes through a gay man's head.

And it is very offensive to say "mixed up". Gays are not mixed up, they're just attracted to the same gender.

Besides, some straight guys prefer *** over boobs.

Answer 3

As a gay man, I can't fathom why straight guys are so obsessed with boobs. They hold ZERO attraction for me. It's the way I was created. For example, I find female aromas a total turn off - I literally react like I got a whiff of ammonia - but I find musky, masculine male smells a turn on..

Answer 4

I think girls' bodies are nice, even intriguing, but I wouldn't want to have sex with one. It's the nature, the definition, of being gay to feel toward other men what straight men feel toward women. Interestingly, even a therapist I was seeing once was dumbfounded that breasts didn't turn me on. I think that fact is further evidence that being gay is hard-wired into our nature. A flat, bare male chest usually attracts the interest that straight men have in women's breasts, which is thought to be an unconscious attraction toward women best equipped to nurse babies, much like the purpose of sexual arousal is to induce baby-making and the perpetuation of the species. That does raise the question of the cause and purpose of homosexuality, but since humans are reproducing like rabbits even with a constant 8+% gay population, that's only of concern to academics and straight people.

Answer 5

I think what you're tired of is the same old stuff. All boobs start looking the same, beautiful women are just generically beautiful. Maybe you're body is trying to tell you to start getting serious and look for a real relationship.

Answer 6

We don't have a mix up, we simply feel towards the same gender what you feel towards the opposite gender. By your logic, I could turn the matter around and ask you why you're not attracted to a nice pair of pecs, chest hair and a great sculpted butt. It's just a matter of preferences. There's nothing to understand about it, really.



One who dislikes the taste of broccoli, cannot fathom what another could possibly like about it. It doesn't mean that they have a mix up, they just like it while the other doesn't. It's the same thing.

Answer 7

First off, there's NOTHING "mixed up" or "wrong" in gay peoples brains because of their sexual orientation, that's pretty offensive. And as bisexual girl i agree with you, boobs are amazing but really, everyone is different! i think a gay guy can easily wonder how do straight guys don't like penis, the fact that you don't understand that doesn't mean it isn't normal or it's not valid, get what i'm saying? you don't necessarily have to undertansd why gay/lesbian people truly feel like i mean if you're stright then you're straight and like boobs and that's it, but everyone feels attracted to different things.

Answer 8

Any time I see a question that calls a woman's breasts "boobs," I know there was a boob at the keyboard.



Google "sexual orientation." I don't have time to explain it all to you. Educate yourself, if you really want to understand.

Answer 9

It's the same reason your attracted to boobs so much. Hormones. As a straight girl I wonder how guys are not attracted to sexy abs and v lines and shoulder muscles, like you wonder about boobs. Gay men are born that way just like me and you, and like what they like because of their hormones, also just like me and you. And btw my gay friends love my boobs. Everybody loves boobs. They're just not attracted to them in that way

Answer 10

Well, Dave, how can straight men POSSIBLY not be attracted to a gorgeous butt and a nice set of pecs with that lovely little line of hair trailing down to the penis?



See, that's how.



Dave, your questions don't sound like someone trying to understand, they sound like someone who doesn't realize that all his homophobic questions have been asked here a thousand times before.



When I see two homophobes, I am looking at a pair of boobs.



We're not "mixed up" in our brains. You are. Get your facts... STRAIGHT.

Answer 11

Gay men, straight women, and bisexual people don't understand how you're not attracted to penis and a strong jaw. Seriously, I do not understand your ability to look at a fine muscled male specimen and feel nothing. Because we have different sexualities, dude, we'll never "get" how the other feels because we'll never feel it. So just be content that as normal as boob love feels to you, that's how dong love feels to the rest of us that are into guys.

Answer 12

wow can you tell why YOU not ATTRACTED to men. They are so hot and sexy good in bed. I am not trying to be rude to you I am just trying to learn about something I don't understand



what happen you see a hot penis and a hot male bubble butt. I love looking at them and more. Is there REALLY no interested AT ALL

Answer 13

It's like asking women why aren't they attracted to 'women and boobs'. And what about bisexuals who are able to appreciate both, male and female form and it's beauty? Would that put heterosexuals on a lower shelf for not being capable to appreciate, as you would put it, 'penises'? :)

Answer 14

That's why I love being Bi. You get the best of both worlds.

Answer 15

I m gay and I don t find boobs attractive for the same reason that you don t think men are sexually attractive. (Please correct me if this is not the case for you). But you get the point hopefully! :)

Answer 16

Lol. Your stupidity is the most remarkable thing on this planet. Seriously now, stop asking such ridiculous questions. The way you don't find yourself attracted to a man..that's the way we gay people aren't attracted to women. Get the point? I'm a lesbian btw. Now shut up and stop asking such stupid questions.

Answer 17

I asked a gay friend that before,he said the same too me,how do i like boobs and the such...i said just try it, he made me a deal,i would try a guy he would try a girl.......so....just not gonna happen......the answer to your q.....the same way we like girls t and a......

Answer 18

Please everyone watch earthlings and gary yourofsky on youtube please and please go vegan it's better for us it's better for the animals and it's better for the planet that we live on and be careful sugar is not vegan because of the bone char just search online for vegan sugar brands or just call the company or e mail them and ask them if they use bone char and be careful with the products that contain sugar just read the ingredients btw beet sugar and evaporated cane juice are vegan

Answer 19

Their purpose is providing milk to infants, so I think you're the one who ought to explain why you as an adult male find them inherently attractive.

Answer 20

The same way straight girls aren't attracted to girls.