Am I genderconfused?

Question

I'm a fairly attractive 23 year old butch...or so I thought. I work out and I am in very good shape. I am tomboy. I'd much rather ride 4 wheelers with my friends(mostly male)then watch gilmore girls. I wear men's clothes mostly, but I wear tight white t'shirts and wifebeaters with baggy pants. I never considered being a male, I'm happy with my curves and boobs, I just am who I am....but who the heck am I?

Answer 1

Gender confusion is when you want to be the opposite of the gender you are. So no you are not gender confused. I prefer male clothes most of the time but I don't want to be a man either. I love women and that makes me a lesbian. Do you fall in love with women? If you do you are just another gay woman.

Answer 2

You are a fairly attractive 23 year old that likes to dress in mens clothes and ride four wheelers.

Answer 3

I dont think you are genderconfused. If you like being a woman but have male traits then your just a tomboy, butch. My g/f works out, Loves the trucks. Has alot of male friends. She just relates to them better. It sounds to me you know exactly who you are. Just outside seems to creep in every now and again to confuse you. YOu are who you are and there isnt anything wrong with that. There are alot of women who are like you. Doesnt mean they want to be a male. They like being a woman just fine... Just dont mind getting their hands dirty under the hood!

Answer 4

You obviously don't fit into any of the stereotypes that you got put into your mind by upbringing and society.

From your description it doesn't sound like you need to - you seem to have happily found a place for you in life where you can be you. You're lucky, try to keep it up and don't try to be someone defined by others. Good luck!

Answer 5

you sound very okay to me, you are a sporty kind of woman, just because you like the outdoor sports doesn't make you any less of a woman and the fact that you are confident in yourself makes you very sexy to me. I know you are a lesbian and that is great, don't let stupid stereotypes get in the way of your life.

Answer 6

I think you are just a tomboy that likes to have fun, not a butch. Unless you want to be with girls!! Do You?

Answer 7

Girl you are you!! Don't worry about what you are labeled as, if you like to dress like a tomboy then that is cool, and you don;t need to worry. I like to dress like a girl and go all out (With high hills, pretty jeans, movie star sun glasses) And I am sure people talk about me, because I live in Texas where people don't dress like that, and I am sure they talk about me when they see me with my girlfriend who dresses just like you. And I love her the way she is!!

Answer 8

you already said you are happy with the way you are. and you are who you are, you can't put a label on that. We all are trying to figure ourselves out, that's life and that's what makes life so great. You are a beautiful soul. Just continue being you.

Answer 9

Your a beautiful woman who likes guys clothes and looks good in them (oh wait talking about myself). Just go with it, you will find that femme to complete your life1

Answer 10

your still you, your just in a wierd phase right now....guys look at girls who are tomboys differntly than normal girls....because u hang out with the guy more often girls will often assume u are a sl*t...but thats not true...but guys look at u as a "who are u" they wouldnt want to date someone who dosent know who they are.

Answer 11

You're just a tomboy...and there's nothing wrong with it. You sound alot like my sister. Just be who you are, which is YOU. You're happy and thats all that matters. :)

Answer 12

lot o lesbians are tomboys nothin wrong wit that it dont mean your gender confused at all unless you wan2 be a man

Answer 13

Sounds like you need to experiment more with your preferences...both emotionally and physically before you try to make a decision...there is no wrong answer...

Answer 14

No. I don't think you are. There is nothing wrong with what you have said. Like other say just be who you feel comfortable being--yourself.



That's all that matters.

Answer 15

you are what feels right! Do you know anything about the genderqueer movement?

Answer 16

just have fun bro who cares what others think,,live your life girl because life is short,,,,,,good times wooo hoooo