You sure have a dilemma then don't you.
Maybe you need to do some research of your own. Maybe you need to identify which sex (female or male) is at highest risk of child abuse. Maybe then you need to identify which male is the most common offender against that sex of child and be sure to be sitting down before reading that most wife's are silent upon fining out the truth if its their partner or son who is the offender.
In fact if you follow the line of offenders, Father, son, mother (guilty through failing to report offenses if its a family member) brother, uncle, teacher, other trusted person like priest and sports coaches, The poor old gay male is at the end of the line.
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I work in an industry that employes thousands of people. I get to mix with many of them.
While I don't deny that some of the gay men at my work are into young guys, there number of married men who are fathers who are into young girls astounds me, expressly when you consider that these are just the men who are willing to be open about their attraction.
You see studies like you speak about are very crafty in how the data is presented.
It says that 43 homosexuals etc etc, did it explain how it found these men or how the questions were structured and answers collected? You would be amazed at how easy it is to direct the path of a study by controlling the sort of person in the study and the wording of questions.
I wonder just what they pigeon holed as defining a boy. Was it any male under 18 or was it males who have not reached puberty. Go read up on what is a pedophile if you cant grasp the importance.
Did it explain why it did not do a similar study on heterosexual men?
Did it disclose the statistics gathered here in Australia from child protection authorities don't support the findings of the study. Its not rocket science. If 100% of homosexuals were into boys and just under 68% of the homosexual population is so into boys that they may offend, that would say that almost every male child will at some time in his life be seduced by some homosexual male.
I can assure you if the reality was that bad this would be bigger than the war on terror.
So on one hand you have a rating seeking TV program that you cant identify and neither can you identify the program or the study and on the other hand you have statistics that are obtained by real life experience.
I know if I was in your dilemma of your friends being around your children, I know which of the two places of knowledge I would trust.