Why do I love wearing womens clothes?

Question

I have been into wearing panties, thongs, bras, tight jeans, skirts, makeup, womens wigs.. etc, since I was about 8, I'm now 21 yr old male.. Im not gay.. I do not find men attractive period!! I'm not into guys, but I want to be a girl so bad.. I'm confused to why. Can someone help me?

Answer 1

A large part of this is the denial of male beauty - people often think the only way for males to experience beauty for themselves is to "become" women as much as they can. Not so! Forget the bra and/or "passing" - wear those skirts, makeup, pretty hair, nails, etc - as the guy you are. Define YOUR OWN "masculinity" for yourself.



Biology is real - i.e. women's need for bras. Everything else has been MADE UP: Skirts, makeup, hair, nails, etc are suitable for both genders. Dresses however, generally need to be custom made for the male physique - but there's nothing more comfortable.



Personally, I detest the typical male wardrobe. Boring, hot, boring, uncomfortable, boring, & not pretty at all! Did I mention boring? I won't wear a suit and/or tie under ANY circumstances.

Answer 2

Because you are a crossdresser. Most Crossdressers are heterosexual and have no desire to become a woman 24/7/365 for the rest of thier life. However they find stress relief and pleasure from dressing up and looking like a woman. The key is to understand who you are and to not let your hobby detract from life in general. It is fun to dress up and even more pleasure can be derived from "passing in public", however if it has become your life, then you have gotten into your hobby too much and need to pull back.



Crossdressers derive pleasure from dressing and many get a sexual tension relief through this fantasy dressing. But you also need to understand how much more difficult it is to BE a woman and what all they have to go through (pregnancy, periods, emotional swings, public expectations, etc). By that standard, dressing as one for a few hours or a day, then going back to who were are is not only head and shoulders above them, but grants us a time to understand their trials and tribulations. The old proverb of "don't criticize someone until you have walked ten miles in their shoes" really applies to crossdressers who have walked ten miles in a pair of 5" stilletos and understand why women don't want to wear them all night long (although they are sexy as can be).



Don't let your hobby get in the way of getting out and enjoying what else life has to offer. Maybe you will be really lucky and find a girl who is understanding and supportive. Or maybe you will at least find one that will tolerate your hobby. But let them know early in the relationship so that they are not blindsided. The right ones will want to get to know YOU before they know YOU/Her and that's the best for a relationship anyway.

Answer 3

Myself, i admire donning sheer nylons. I placed on them everywhere yet to the sea coast, pool, picnics and so on. i can't stand pantyhose, yet i admire stockings they are so delicate and slippery. around the homestead I placed on a huge cotton T, long sufficient to be a dress, and my stockings. as quickly as I dres up I placed on the two a right away skirt and silk shirt, of a few geared up denims and a silk shirt., heels and of course my stockings.

Answer 4

By far the majority of transvestites are heterosexual. You've just let the women overwhelm you with their sex propaganda. You're caught,mate.

But what's this doing under LGBT?

Answer 5

You can still be a girl and date a girl. If you find it right for you, go for it.

Answer 6

well since you wore them at such a early age you got comfertable to them and used to them and now ur stuck on that habit, you have to try to break it

Answer 7

Your a wanna be lesbian transsexual, you just don't know it yet, now you do!