I don't like boobs, am I still a lesbian?

Question

I've been wondering since I don't like boobs if I'm still lesbian. I love girls, I want to be with a girl. Can't see myself sexually with a guy. I'm 17 almost 18. My friend who's also lesbian is obsessed with boobs and that made her realize she was lesbian. I don't mind them but I don't get turned on or the need to suck them like she does. lol

Answer 1

If you don't like them, you don't like them. If you like girls, you like girls. Its as simple as that. Don't let what turns other people on make you feel weird or indifferent. You are still a lesbian even if you don't care much for breasts. Some men prefer small breasts or even flat chested women (hard to believe, I know), so its no surprise that there are lesbians who aren't crazy about them either. Be your own person and don't let what other people love and adore influence how you feel.

Answer 2

If you say you love girls and can't see yourself sexually with a guy, then yes, you are still a lesbian. We all have our different turn-ons... butt, legs, boobs, etc. It's not a lesbian requirement to be obsessed with the boobs.

Answer 3

Boobs don't make the girl. Some guys prefer small boobs too. You don't have to like what your friend likes. Also, sometimes you can't see your self with a guy until he kisses you and then your like oh yeah...but I am straight so...lol I would rather a person be interested in other parts than my boobs if you ask me. Don't worry about labels like lesbian or bi or straight. just go with what feels right to you.

Answer 4

Are you okay with the idea of being with a girl? are you okay with the idea of being with a boy? just those two questions fix everything. Think about it for sometime and youll have your answer :) You can be bisexual and still be more attracted to one more than the other. But as long as your okay with the idea then yeah. I have a bisexual friend but she has dated more girls than boys but shes still attracted to guys. I wouldnt worry too much. If you can touch them then everything is okay :)

Answer 5

Breasts are in no way, shape or form sexual, so yes you're still a lesbian.

Answer 6

I am not super into balls or dick and I am still gay! ;) his face matters to me a lot more than the size down there! It doesn't have to be the boobs... for you it could be something else. Those are erotic body parts that MOST people find hot not ALL! :)