A male get a straight male to experiment?

Question

How does guy get a straight male to experiment?
How does a guy go about asking a straight male about experimenting?
I'm interested in trying this out as a one time thing. I don't think I act more masculine or feminine, but people assume I'm straight from how I carry myself (I'm pretty quiet). I have never been with a guy. Currently in college, and the reply of 'get him drunk' sounds like an awful way of getting my question accomplished (not sure if people were trolling me when they said this).

I don't find myself attracted to obviously flamboyant gay guys. The ones I like are straight, or straight-acting gays/bisexuals, and if they are the latter, I assume they are straight. And I don't exactly have a good gaydar (since I'm bi/not good at this).

The most I'd want to do is a handjob (to a guy, not receiving one).

Part of me thought watching porn together would do the trick, but I don't know how that would play out. Or maybe comparing sizes and see where it leads.

In college right now.

Or will telling a guy I'm bisexual from the start workout if he is the curious one?

Answer 1

Why do you need to get a straight guy to experiment with you? Once you are in college there probably aren't too may straight guys around who still want to experiment with other guys.



It sounds like you need to meet other straight-acting gay or bi guys. You can meet guys in clubs (all sorts of gay social clubs, not just gay night clubs) and using internet dating websites if you properly describe the sort of guy you are looking for. There will probably be other guys out there your age who are also inexperienced and will be happy to take things slowly.



There are plenty of straight acting gays guys out there too if you are not interested in effeminite gay guys.



Don't plan too much about what you want to do with a guy. Just get together with a guy and see what you feel like doing. You can always stop if you try something and then realise you don't like it. Not all guys are into anal sex, so don't freak out over that.



Whatever you are into, guy or girl, always play safe.

Answer 2

The only time... and I mean ONLY time straight guys do each other is when there are no women around for an extended period of time (like jail & the military).



Your best bet is to look for someone like yourself only more out. You might want to try going to an LGBT center because there are masculine men there. Most are fems but just look around.



Also I wouldn't bother looking online. You wouldn't believe how many feminine men think they're masculine.

Answer 3

Well first off ... "straight" means he's not interested. You need to find Bi.