Is he really gay or he is just putting up an act to get attention?

Question

i have a new hzmate that moved in with me..im a girl by the way..and this guy, shaun is gay..well, he looks super gay,and infront of me and my ex hzmte proves that he is one and is proud of it..which we dun mind at all..but the weird part is, that me and my ex hzmate, lish just found out stuff bout him..ok first he lied bout havin an ex-bf..then he makes out with a girl and tells me its for the fun of it but it was gross, then he appears totally naked infront of my room..(first he asked me a ques but when i turned i didnt notice, then he asked again and when i turned this time i saw e'thin! and i shouted at him..)and he is very touchy..like when he hugs he sometimes grobes my boobs but i ignore it thinking its an accident.. so, does he just lack attention and pretend to be gay to get closer to girls?,or is he a bi-sexual? or is he gay but suffers from mental disorders?? help!!im freakin out..i never used to lock my room door but nowdays i do cuz im afraid..

Answer 1

first whether he is gay or straight is not really the important issue. The important issue is you feel he is acting inappropriate around you. That's all that needs to be known. If you feel that, then you have the right to speak up and talk to him and let him know he needs to change some of his behaviours that cause you to be concerned.



as for his sexuality...if he says he's gay, i'd believe him. I dont think there are too many straight guys out there who would pretend to be gay.

Answer 2

I suppose that it is a well poignant query. I as a rule ask a identical query. Why is it vital for homosexual guys to tackle a female character or trends. And why is it vital for homosexual women to tackle a male character or male trends. If you're certainly drawn to the equal intercourse. wouldnt you are taking at the character of the equal intercourse?

Answer 3

I agree with RobNyack...

You are asking the wrong question. It's not relevant if he is gay or bi or whatever. He's a new housemate and he's already crossing lines.



I'd tell him to find a new place to live quick.

Answer 4

He's a flirt. He's flirting with you because he can. Nothing to do with sexuality. He feels powerful, clever, desireable, validated, funny, charming.

He is playing with you. His sexuality is not really your business, unless he asks you out on a romantic date. If you feel insecure, tell him. Discuss boundaries, set some house rules.

Answer 5

move out either way.