I got stood up?

Question

As I mentioned, I was supposed to get together with this girl last night...I was a bit nervous about it anyways because I think she mostly wanted to hook up, but she didnt show, didnt call, didnt drop me an email...and I know she was on her computer at one point because she posted a survey on myspace. I dont want to seem obsessive or pushy...but should I say something? I messaged her twice yesterday to find out when she was coming (My scheduel changed so I was letting her know it could be earlier if she wanted) so I'm afraid she'll think another email is to much...but I dont want to just -not- say anything. I dont know what to do!

Answer 1

Even though you messaged her yesterday, I think you are within your rights to ask why she didn't show. It's just common courtesy to keep an appointment, or send word why you can't!



Ask her and let her take it from there ... maybe she decided against it at the last minute, or has some genuine reason.



Or maybe she's just a rude person you can do without!



Either way, you'll never know unless you ask.



Hope it turns out well :-)

Answer 2

If the girl was really interested she would have responded in an e-mail and set up another meeting. the fact that she is ignoring you shows she IS NOT! There could be many reasons why she isn't BUT if you continue to write she will,

1. Think of you as a potential stalker.

2. Think of you as needy.



Don't feel as if you must find out why she didn't show. You really may not like the answer. The ball is in her court. Move on , respect yourself and you will find another more worthy of your attention.

Answer 3

You deserve a reason, but she deserves a slap upside her head. Ask her politely one more time what happened, and then forget her. No one needs to be disrespected. If she had a legit reason, and she were a decent person, she would already have let you know.

Answer 4

She does not deserve your time. When she tries to contact you; and she will; tell her you are not interested. Manners an respect for another person's time are basic expectations and this might be a preview of things to come...why waste your time with a loser like this?

Answer 5

Please dont be too mad at her.



I have stood people up in the past occasionally, not because i wanted to mess them about but anxiety, and having a panic attack at the wrong time and fearing the other person would see.

Answer 6

leave it because you will only build up her ego, embarress yourself and it will start to make you feel like you done something wrong. if she contacts you don't mention it either, she sounds like an idiot or someone who doesn't know what she wants to me

Answer 7

I would forget about her, but it is possible (but very unlikely) that something serious happened and she couldn't contact you.

Answer 8

Just write her off and be done with it.

Answer 9

get some hair dye and a man with a huge/>??> and you will be better for it