This may sound weird, but my girlfriend and I had a long conversation one night. She decided to be honest with me... I asked her have she ever been with another woman sexually. She told me yes , but only doing a threesome (GGM) Might I add, I've known my girlfriend ever since she was 15 and I was 16. We've been friends for 19 years and we have a little boy together. I asked her several questions from being curious... she told me she's not into women, she doesn't fantasize about women, she is not turned on by women and she's not gay or Bi. Of curse I told her I was confused lol. She said it's strictly sexual and nothing else. She told me the only time she's ever been with women was doing three threesomes she's had in the past and another time with a former co worker and all she did to her was let her co worker perform oral on her, but she never returned the favor. Shortly after the encounter with her coworker, she said her co worker asked her to join her and her husband for a threesome and she went along with it. She told me she was really nervous the first time. After that experience with the married couple ,she said she had one more threesome with them and that was it. My girlfriend mentioned to me she has kissed the women doing her threesome encounters and enjoyed it. I feel she's bi sexual,.. I even asked her would she ever consider having a threesome with me. She said she wasn't sure, she's never had a threesome with someone she loves or have feelings for. She mentioned she wouldn't mind and if the two of us decided to have one it would definitely have to be before we get married. My girlfriend made it clear if we had a threesome, there would have to be some rules involved such as, no kissing ,or no missionary positions. She said I couldn't be in any positions that includes me and the other woman being face to face. She sounded as if she really wasn't sure about it, but at the same time wanted it. She said she really want me to experience a threesome and enjoy it. I asked her a trick question just to see how she would respond. I asked her if we had a threesome and the other woman and her started off kissing and touching each other and she noticed I felt uncomfortable, walked out the room and didn't return, what would she do... would she continue with the woman, or stop once she noticed I left out the room? She said she would stop and go after me to see what was wrong, it wouldn't be any reason for her to continue with out me because the threesome would be for me to enjoy and if I didn't want to go along with it she would feel disappointed and it was a waste of time for the two of us. She told me she would enjoy it, if she noticed I was enjoying it. She said she wouldn't mind watching another woman give me oral, or watch me perform doggy style on another woman sexually. She said the visual probably turn her on. Now after hearing that of course it made me feel a little better knowing she would stop and not continue with the other woman, but I'm not sure if she was just telling me what she thought I wanted to hear. I told her if she was Bi, I would still love her no matter what and again she told me plenty of times she's not gay or Bi. I need some answers. I'm really trying to understand with out being judgmental.