am i 15 am i gay or just going through a phase?

Question

i am 15 about 2 months ago i stopped liking the girls from my class, i usedto always like someone at one point or another, but now i find my self more attracted to guys, i even have crush on a guy in my class, i have done gay stuff before with other guys, this boy i used to live next to, we would blow each other and still do like twice a year, but after i have an orgasm i feel wrong and wierd and dont want to do gay stuff any more, but i still dont like girls after that. when i see girls who are hot i dont think about having sex with them, also when i see guys who are hot i dont think about sex but i still want to know how big their penis is. i want to know am i going through a phase or am i gay, my feeling for girls used to be stronger than my feelings for boys, but now it is reversed. i dont want to be gay, not because of persecution but because i personnally dont want to be. any tips on how to stop these feelings for other boys, am i going through a phase or am i gay?

Answer 1

Youre discovering yourself slowly.



Give it time, you will find out what you are.



But im going to have to guess that youre ending up gay.

Answer 2

It all varies, hun. Sometimes you really can't help who you're attracted to. I think since you've had sexual encounters with guys, and you continue to, then it may mean something. I'm a teenager, just like you, and I've come to the realization that a lot of us really have no idea as to what we may or may not want. When I was a bit younger, I wasn't too sure about how I would feel about girls too, but it took later on for me to realize that I like them and guys as well. I always have, and I remember there were times when I wish I didn't, but I still do anyway.

I don't think there's any way to stop your feelings, nor is there any way of knowing if you're gay or not since you seem to be confused...so just give it time, alright?

Answer 3

Your probible going through a phase. Ya know testostarone and hormones. Sorry, but from my experiance with myself and friends, your probably bi. Also, playing sexually with other dudes dosent make you gay! It means you just like playing with yourself and being played with. You mite just play with other dudes for the thrill and excitement.



You need to wait a bit longer before you know what sexuality you are, remember that you dont have a chose with what you are but know thatbevery sexuality is rite.



Hope this helps.



Good luck.



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Answer 4

It's probably a phase. It happens to 1,000's of guys your age. Don't worry about it.



Your sexuality will evolve over the next few years and you'll make up your mind whether you are str8, bi or gay. But in the meantime, there is no shame in finding out and having fun.



Just don't put yourself in any risk.

Answer 5

sounds like a phase, if u were gay you would be blowing that kid more than twice a year, just try to start thinking of the girls, get sexual with one of them and when u find out how good a girl looks naked and how she feels ur gonna wanna stick to one! lol

Answer 6

While it's doubtful that it is a phase, don't put a label on yourself--you are attracted to what you are--sometimes that may be women, but you sound inclined to like males a little more--there's nothing wrong with that- it's healthy- just have safe sex.

Answer 7

Well....for me this thing happened 2 years ago when i was 13.I am Bisexual now at present...

I didn't know that there was also a phase at this age..I just thought that i was Bisexual..Personally i didn't think there was any phase or something like that,.but now your question has confused me..

People say that you are either gay or not gay i used to believe,they also said that you can't stop yourself from being a gay.But now,,after having a long argument with a priest of my religion (Islam) he said that God has created only straights..This homosexual thing comes from the evil part of ours...In religions like Christianity and Islam homos are not allowed...And now i am in a dilema of what to be??

Anyway to stop yourself from being a gay just keep it in your mind that devil is making you homosexual,,also when feeling like u like a man comes in your mind just jerk it off and start thinking about girls more.,,believe me you will be able to stop it but it will take only a bit of long time..

Best Of Luck!!

Answer 8

It's a phase.

But you can overcome it by time. You should get to know girls though because you're gonna end up getting in a relationship with a dude and you will be ridiculed, you can't have babies, and overall it's kinda weird unless you're a samurai who's not allowed to love women.

Answer 9

you are fifteen going through a phase of eventually turning gay. Dude, honestly get with the hot girls you see and just do em!

Answer 10

seems its a phrase you are going thru. thou not all boys have it.

its good that you are not all into it and being curious about whats under their pants is normal as we also do about gals . . .

its also good you want to be "normal" . . . do it and have some determination.... you feel guilty and weird after doing it . . . that shows you are curious and a norm having the urge . . .

just realised who to ahve your urge...its all the same but different perference . .



good luck.

Answer 11

we are all trying to figure ourselves out. give it time. and if u do find out ur gay or bi. just go with it.

Answer 12

Its okay,

Just a phase dude....

Just give it time and you will know what you want...