Question:
is this guy I met in the gym gay?
anonymous
2010-12-12 10:11:55 UTC
I met a guy in the gym/ steam room. After a nice conversation, he mentioned to me if in the future we can go to a resort into the mountains to hunt and fish during a weekend. I said that would be awesome, that I will let him know. I gave him my phone number ( he memorized it) Today he called me and invited to go for a walk and then go for swimming. He is very attractive and he told me he was married. Now I don't know if he has another interest with me other than a friend.
Ten answers:
louisrichardk
2010-12-12 10:28:23 UTC
In the steam room huh? Maybe he is not getting what he needs at home being that he is married. Some guys like being married & all that comes with it but their wives sometimes are not in the friend mode. Going camping & fishing & just being a guy doing guy things breaks the repetition of married life sometimes. That said, he "Maybe" in the closet & senses that you could be an outlet for him, especially if he has gay dar. In my opinion though I wouldn't want the drama with the wife thing.
holtslander
2016-12-05 01:38:21 UTC
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anonymous
2010-12-13 09:51:01 UTC
he might like to explore with another hot attractive hunk, like you..i recall the first guy i gave a bj, was stragiht. but hot..the only thing that can happen is what you want to happen..what happen in the forrest, stays in the forrest!
Carter_k1
2010-12-12 10:13:22 UTC
You can not tell a persons sexuality from the way they act or behave; when the person tells you that's when you know.
srracvuee
2010-12-12 10:17:58 UTC
Chances are that he is gay are very slim considering he is married,but there are exceptions, but I would say cut him short as its obvious what is in his mind
anonymous
2010-12-12 10:13:39 UTC
He wants a friend and possibly more. Go for it. Bring condoms and lube.
Empress
2010-12-12 10:14:04 UTC
if you want the drama and the constant feeling that you are under appreciated then go for it .... but if yhou dont like all those things then move on hunny
AZBOY
2010-12-12 10:56:41 UTC
hhhmm sounds fun to me
anonymous
2010-12-12 10:15:42 UTC
Do you want to have fun or think gay?
reallysimpleindeed
2010-12-12 11:34:34 UTC
Only fcuk him if you have the guts to tell it to his woman, dipsh*t.


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