Lesbians: Don't you think there is a Double standard?

Question

Many of us lesbians get angry when a guy says "you just haven't found the right man"... "you just haven't had me" yadda yadda BS..

but then again.. i realized that many butchie (or even femme) lesbians use similar lines on straight girls..


dont you think there is a double standard?

its kinda hypocritical...


i must admit i've been guilty of it though.

Answer 1

Yup, you're totally right.



People act as though questioning homosexuality is sacrilegious, yet questioning heterosexuality is good and right.



Definitely a double standard.

Answer 2

I've totally noticed that; it kind of makes me angry because I've given so many people the "you can't change your sexuality" lecture and then they use that as a counter-argument.



I hate it when men hit on me, so I would never hit on a straight girl - it's just common courtesy.

Answer 3

I have never said that to a straight girl - and I never would.



First of all it's conceited, and secondly, and more importantly, i don't want anyone questioning my sexuality - i won't question hers.

Answer 4

Yes and it won't ever change or they ask if they

can watch.

Answer 5

I find it funny because everyone thinks they are gods gift to sex!

Answer 6

of course.... but i've not had that line used on me nor have i used it

Answer 7

ahahaha, never thought about that. I guess you are right!