Overcoming my addiction to TS pornography? (transgendered)?

Question

At first I was not attracted to what some call the "third sex," but after watching it occasionally i am seriously turned on by it. i am a pretty social guy and have been with females born as such and am still sexually attracted to woman, but ts porn just turn me on so much that i am seriously thinking about meeting a girl online or something. besides sex, i love how feminine they are, and personality wise they are great.

what i find enticing about them sexually is how masturbation is accepted and encouraged by the transgendered women. but at the same time i feel like it is becoming an addiction, thanks to girls like danielle foxx, mandy mitchell, and carla novaes.

not to be too graphic but ts porn just makes me so excited and my penis get so hard when i am viewing it. is there anything i can do to overcome my addiction?

Answer 1

The reason people develop 'fetishes' such as TS pornography is by masturbating to that type of that pornography frequently. Any activity, if re-in-forced by masturbation enough times can become an addiction. There is a biological explanation behind this (I'll try to keep it short), the chemicals that are released in your brain during orgasm put you in this euphoric state causing a further psychological desire for whatever is before you, this can be a good thing in marriage. But if you masturbate to something something else enough times you will find yourself desiring that.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I wouldn't go so far as to say there are no transsexual women in porn, but there is a vast difference between the goal of a person who feminizes their body specifically to work in the sex industry, and a person who feminizes their body to alleviate severe gender dysphoria.



Let's not kid ourselves... the feminized "transwomen" you see in TS porn are first and foremost gay men. A genetic female does not have a penis between her legs, nor does she WANT one. A transsexual female has the same brain as a genetic female. She no more wants a penis between her legs than any other woman. The "transwomen" in the porn industry TREASURE their penises. Why? Because they make them money.



One of the most basic criteria for a diagnosis of transsexualism is whether the person seeks transition for reasons other than their gender identity - for example, sexual or financial gratification. There is no doubt that these people have gender issues, and like all human beings they deserve respect, but their choice to exist as a so-called "third sex", to take street hormones, to engage in dangerous practices like injecting silicone, to participate in illegal prostitution or "escorting", and so on, makes it harder for transsexual women to overcome the stigmas that surround the porn industry. It's not the people that I find threatening, it's their lifestyle, and because they are exhibitionists by nature, THEY are what society thinks of when they hear the word "transsexual."



The fallout from the porn industry is a constant obstacle to transsexual women who are trying to get society to see transsexualism as something other than a sexual perversion.

Answer 4

I love Mandy Mitchell . . . she's an amazingly smart, talented, beautiful and creative woman! She seriously inspires me every day, especially by making such huge strides in the industry all by herself, a trailblazer who started shooting her own content when nobody else would give her the opportunity to be a TS BDSM sub, or to do queer/lesbian content, and so on.



But yes, sometimes people get addictions to Internet porn, and if you feel it is getting out of hand and derailing your life, undergoing a process of getting help (similar among any type of addiction) is the way to go.



EDIT: I just wanted to add to Elle- what the heck? There are definitely transsexual women in porn, and it kills me that so many transwomen, apparently threatened by the idea of them and chasers, would completely disregard their gender identities and call these ladies men as a way to shame the guys who dig them (a better way to shame chasers is to, say, focus on the objectification part of it!).



Ugh.

Answer 5

I quite have pals that are engaged on it. i'm specific that is troublesome. some issues one in each of them is doing is: a million. He has a help team of guys to maintain him to blame. 2. He does not get on the information superhighway on my own. His spouse locks up the modem. 3. They have been given rid of the television and VCR, with the aid of fact he might sneak video clips. They do watch DVD's on the pc now, yet they did no longer for an prolonged time. i do no longer think of he's triumph over it, yet works on it each of the time. i don't comprehend concerning the have faith area. I quite have a feeling that there is no longer a great form of have faith in this section, yet there is have faith in different areas. i think of that praying for him is considerable too.

Answer 6

First to answer the question. There's nothing wrong with liking TS porn but if you're addicted and would like to cut down or stop then you might try finding a new hobby that isn't masturbating or get in an actual relationship =)



Second of all Erica, I generally agree with you but everytime I see you say that most or many of the people in trans porn are really gay men I want to ask where you're getting the information to come to that conclusion. Is there a study I haven't heard of about who is participating in TS porn? Or maybe you've personally talked to a large sampling of people who participate in TS porn and they've told you they see themselves as gay men? If so could you provide a link to the study so I can read it? I'm genuinely curious. If such a study exists I'd like to take a look at it.



Are there gay men posing as transwomen in TS porn? Undoubtedly. Have I seen anything to make me reach the conclusion that the majority are really feminized gay men? No.



And even if the majority are feminized gay men I fail to see what is wrong with TS porn. I'll definitely agree that it plays a role in the discrimination that transwomen face and I don't like the stigma it helps to re-enforce. After all I have to live it the effects of that stigma everyday. But I'm not convinced that the harm of TS porn goes further then the stigma around it. And the stigma surrounding a group or activity isn't enough to declare that group or act in and of itself to be "bad" or "wrong."



I'll give an example. In Victorian times tan skin carried a stigma because people with tanned skin were poor people and farmers that couldn't afford to hire people to do their manual labor for them. So they were constantly working in the sun thus why they would have tan skin. Back then fair skin was a sign of wealth and prosperity and everyone with tanned skin were lowly peasants to be looked down on.



Does that make tanned skin bad or wrong? I certainly wouldn't think so. The problem here is one of perception.



The same goes for TS porn. If you can demonstrate harm caused by TS porn that isn't related to the stigma around it I'm all ears. But until that harm is demonstrated I'll continue to argue that the problem with TS porn is people's perception of it and not the act itself.



I'll say it again. I don't like the stigma that TS porn helps re-enforce and it's unquestionable that that stigma makes the lives of transwomen harder. But the response is not to condemn TS porn or the people that participate in it or to make sweeping generalizations about how those people do and don't identify.



We must work on educating people and changing their perception of us so they realize that most of us aren't all about sex and don't want to be in porn. We must make people realize that TS porn isn't representative of what it's like to be with a transwomen or to be a transwomen. The same way a porn where a pizza delivery boy comes to the door and winds of having sex with the person he's delivering pizza to isn't representative of what it's like to actually deliver pizza or be a pizza delivery boy.

Answer 7

Just don't forget the girls that have a penis in porn are men who became ladies to impress horny men like you.



I mean MEN. So that pretty much make you bisexual.



Real transsexual women are real women and they don't show off in porn at all.

Answer 8

There's nothing wrong with it. Btw is it female to male or male to female transgendered ppl?