Toe tapping airport bathroom gay sex question?

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I am in my mid 30s and use airports a few times a year. How many men out there have actually had another man make a deliberate move on them between bathroom stall walls at an airport? Can you share your 1st hand (no pun) experience about the soliciation on how it happened. I'm just totally shocked that tapping a toe, or what ever the hell is a sign for sex from a guy taking a dump next to me.

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This is for us to know and you to not.

Sex in public restrooms has been going on between men since public restrooms were invented. If this is the first you are hearing about this, you are WAY behind the times.

Most men who have sex in restrooms fall into 3 categories.

1- The boy just coming out as gay who wants to experience sex but doesn't know how to find it anywhere else.

2- The bisexual man who is married to a woman who doesn't know he is bi. So he goes to the restroom for sex.

3- The ugly gay man who can't get sex elsewhere.



I was in category 1 at age 18, until I discovered a different area for sex, a local wooded area. I stopped cruising those areas at age 21, when I discovered gay bars. However, some men cruise parks and restrooms for their entire lives.

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Toe tapping airport bathroom gay sex question?

I am in my mid 30s and use airports a few times a year. How many men out there have actually had another man make a deliberate move on them between bathroom stall walls at an airport? Can you share your 1st hand (no pun) experience about the soliciation on how it happened. I'm just totally...

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Answer 5

Yeah, well, he was doing a little more than just tapping his foot. He peered in through the cracks of the closed adjacent stall, played footsie, and was running his hand along the bottom of the stall in what had to be a suggestive manner- knowing full well that there was a man next door. If you've ever used a men's room you know that normal etiquette prohibits all of the above, and that taking a dump requires none of these. Interestingly, unless I missed something, the "honorable" Senator has presented no "evidence" that he was actually there to take care of business; if he was there cruising, then obviously, he wouldn't want to stink up the joint, but if he wasn't he should have left something behind.



And no, I've never been hit on in a bathroom except in a gay bar. Though if a guy were to act like this, since I don't know the signs, I'd probably just think he's a little "off" and get out as quickly as possible... and hope he's not on my flight!

Answer 6

I never use a public toilet, unless it's an emergency. In that case, I would have no interest in toe tapping... :-)



I have had MANY urinal approaches. I even had a guy pinch my a ss in a bathroom once! They can be very forward.



I don't believe that bathroom sex can lead to any real romance. I always look for romance, even in a one night stand...yes, it can be done!



So, just ignore the creepy ones. Wink at the cute (of which there are a lowly few, sadly) and scream at the trolls!



:-)

Answer 7

I answered this question under a different screen name stating that this activity has been going on forever - and it is generally the so-called "Straight" married men who are the perpetrators every time. For some reason, someone found my answer offensive and reported me and had my answer removed. Report away ! I stand by my position that this is an activity that gay men do not engage in with NEARLY the same frequency as straight men who use public bathrooms as a place to hang their dirty little secret and pick up diseases from other straight men.

These are the people who legislate against gays, just as the good Senator did.

The real perversion is the hypocracy!

Answer 8

Public bathroom sex has been going on for a long time. I think it is an outrage that the cops have nothing better to do than harass people. People on this forum are so giddy and short sighted that a republican idiot got caught, that they are missing the entire point of another crack down on gay people. If it was a liberal that got busted and arrested, the gay community would be up in arms about the harassment. Oh well, the hypocritical BS continues to the detriment of us all.

Answer 9

I don't get why people seem to think that he was just tapping his foot - he was pushing his foot against the guy in the next stall (basiccally playing footsy) and running his hand under the gap. Seriously does that sound like normal bathroom behaviour?



To answer the main question, no I haven't but I know it happens. Just be afraid if you get the stall with the hole in the side >_>

Answer 10

I am gay and a frequent flyer and I was shocked to learn about this secret underground world of anonymous sex. Primarily I think because it is down-low - mostly married, heterosexual men ironically!



But no it has never happened to me, or I've never noticed it before.



But I know one thing - the next time I use a public restroom, I'm not moving my feet!

Answer 11

it's not just airport bathrooms. my college had one particular bathroom that was INFAMOUS for that

Answer 12

Honey, there have been many questions like this recently. I'm sure your intention was not to touch yourself while reading the responses (...) but please go elsewhere for your kicks.