why do u label people?

Question

why do people hate on emo kids so much?! its not like we bother you.i mean yeah,i know you think we look like freaks.but whatever.it doesnt give you any reason to start s***.i dont need any nasty answers.just an explanation.k,thanks.

Answer 1

I DON'T label people. Honestly, your labeling yourself by saying "we" when referring to an emo kid. Don't label yourself, and people won't label you. Be YOU, not a "group".



People can dress how the hell they want, I make no objection to people dressing emo, its no different to the big hair and huge jumpers of olden day lore... But *emo* becomes an issue when people harm to fit in, or complete the stereotype. Emo has become a stigma, kids are bullied for becoming it, kids want to become it, yet no one has any idea exactly what it is they are becoming... Are they becoming a sensationalised version of a 90's look, rather than the goth look they were aiming for, or unable to attain..? I feel such a rage when people turn round and say "i'm emo" because chances are they're just some whiney kid who got less clothes allowance than normal this week... I hate whiney kids looking for attention, kids who have no friend, home, or money problems and yet still have the audacity to moan. The whole "ever emo cuts" thing is such a bigger issue than it seems, people all ages, genders, skintones and religions do it, but no can talk about it because whitewashed by this stupid "emo" bullshit. It is linked to depression, and can be a call for help, sometimes just a coping mechanism, to fight off suicidal feelings.Some kids have problems and people who just judge everyone as a group are ignorant of the real issues and need a few airholes drilled in your skulls. ALSO If a person listens to rock they are not emotionally ****** up, its MUSIC, since when did the kind of music a person likes distinguish whether they are a bad person or not?



People are idiots.

Answer 2

I suppose its a body of reference factor. The label which such a lot carefully describes my sexuality is bisexual so I move with that. As used to be mentioned above its simply less complicated than telling folks I have a female friend proper now however used to be courting a man really critically earlier than and discover each guys and females sexually lovely. Of direction its something to label your self and one more if others label you. Right now to many folks I'm a lesbian considering that I'm courting one more lady, but when we get a divorce and I then begin courting a person I'll be again to being instantly (considering that in such a lot folks's brain bisexual way courting men and getting a few at the facet from females). It might be like a man who dated blondes and bought categorized as simplest liking blondes after which dated a brunette. Well, he ought to have modified and now simplest dates brunettes. Right. The extra demanding factor, to me, is the younger age at which folks desire to label themselves as regardless that they understand at 14 how they're going to think for the leisure in their lives. They would possibly, however additionally they would become aware of anything approximately themselves as they mature. If I had taken a label at 14 and glued to it I might nonetheless be claiming to be instantly. I agree it might be larger if we simply permit folks are living their possess lives with out the labels and next judging, however that is no longer how it is going proper now.

Answer 3

isn't it you that falls into this emo thing to get more attention? be cause this is how we feel it, to me there is nothing good to be an emo apart from bringing in some more diversity to society and work to the youth councillors. and also society punishes this way whatever society things is not of any benefit to it, for example, the drunks, crackheads, slackers and emos.

No this is society, but to me you look great kids, I wish we had this thing when I was a kid, I would have loved to look like one of the manga character I use to watch.

purple still my favourite type of hair.



One Love

Answer 4

in human society, when one deviates from the established norm, they are labeled freaks, end of story.And I don't like to pick on people, but when the emo kids at my school start being all whiny, loud, attention seeking, and obnoxious, its really hard not to...see what I mean? Plus, cutting is crying for attention, why the heck would you want to do that? and I've heard, that "it's the only pain they can control" well why subject yourself to that pain then? All in all it's not that we go out of our way, it's more that a lot of emo kids get into OUR way.

Answer 5

Boredom and loneliness is what causes most people to start crap with other people. What you look like or whatever just makes you an easy target for that person. It's kind of sad. Try to answer back with kindness instead of more hatred. See what kind of response you get when you say "thank you for your opinion" and sincerely mean it!



Happy Holidays and if you're happy Emo - then be Emo, who cares!?

Answer 6

Personally I think an emo is just a cutter that wants attention.

People don't necessarily "hate" on emo people they just make fun of them.If your "emo" you shouldn't really care since "life is a big pile of **** for you" According to what I hear about Emo's.Lastly I though emo was just a style of music or something.

Answer 7

i think its because for a while everyone was the same, then people were different and some people get so used to everyone following the crowd that they were shocked, and when your so used to something you tend not to like when people mess with it.

you also just gaveyourself a label by calling yourself an emo kid...

Answer 8

Honestly, I don't even know what an emo kid is? lol Maybe because I am not a teen, or maybe because I don't care to label people myself. Sorry your feelings were hurt. Try to ignore the ignorant closed minded person. Not worth it.

Answer 9

Well when I think of emo I think of cutting wrists and goth do I stay away so I don't get mixed in with the wrong crowd

Answer 10

not trying to be rude, but emos are labeling themselves as 'emos'.



why not refer to yourselvs as people like everyone else. emo is just another stereotype unfortunatley and i refuse to believe theyre all different, because they all cut their hair the same, all wear the same clothes and act the same. not trying to label anyone but all 'emos' are doing a pretty darn good job of it themselvs.

Answer 11

When people stick out from the norm, they will draw more attention to themselves.

Most times not positive attention.



I'm sorry people have been jerks to you, and I hope you have the merriest of Christmases.

AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!



godbless.

Answer 12

i don't know why people hate emo's

my Friend said it once and i asked her why

shes just like"there so depressing".



personally i have no problem with emos.

i have actually been mistaken for being emo at least 50 times.



i just think people don't understand you.

people don't like what they don't understand.



just ignore them(the people that talk s***)

there ignorant and stupid.

Answer 13

I dont make fun of people, thats not my thing. But I dont care for the spoiled rich kids who act like their problems are worse than anything in the world...just people going through teenage angst like everyone does, but they like to feel like theyre special...

Answer 14

Because they look like they'd come up behind you and kidnap you... and there dark so you assume that there evil (my opinion) they all give you an evil eye and don't smile... creepy, if they were friendly then i'd think about them differently, there only nice to people inside there little group.

Answer 15

I hate on emos because they hate on life, Life is beautiful and it is a miracle and that is the only reason you exist so why are you hating on it?

Answer 16

people are scared of the unknown, so when people see what they call 'emokids' they start rumors and say things that are untrue, because they don't know anything about them. Until they meet the person and understand.

Answer 17

why are you assuming everyone hates emos? are you looking for an egoboost, or do you honestly think that everyone hates you and will say it to you directly

Answer 18

i have no idea why peopel are mean!

but really now, all my friends are emo ^.^

and i adore the emo kids, i think there adorable..

especially that flippy hair...like mine! lawl

Answer 19

Emos are cool.

Answer 20

Stop labeling your self first and grow up.

Answer 21

Because people are sad and dont have lives, they have to spend time talking about other peoples

Answer 22

i don't label people i think its wrong labeling is for soup cans not for people

and emo people are nice

Answer 23

first of we use labels as it helps organize society, just like filing papers we put labels so we know what they are. secondly, humanity is full of creeps

Answer 24

Dont be emo, and people wouldent hate on you..

Answer 25

because ppl make themselves feel better by putting down others

and it's easy

and i really really disagree and think ppl shouldn't do that

Answer 26

maybe because since it's been used so much and when someone is describing a style thats how they refer it to?

Answer 27

b/c they are odd not gonna lie we pick on them at our school its mean but.. kinda hilarious

Answer 28

i think ppl are juss jealous

i mean emos have REALLY good hair :D

Answer 29

I would label you a C u n t

Answer 30

cuz emos are stupid!

have a nice day XD

Answer 31

It might be your attitude.

Answer 32

I dont, I love scene hair,,, Y is this under GAYS!??