Guys 16-19: Would you go out with a pre-op transsexual girl (girl with a penis)?

Question

Like Im 16, and in the process of getting a sex change, Im taking hormones so Ive got boobs (and theyre still growing) but I still have my penis. And Im pretty sure my boyfriend doesnt love me anymore and Im really lonely and heart broken and I want a boyfriend really bad :(


And please no mean answers, I already feel bad enough as it is.
:(

Answer 1

I am pre op as well.(I kinda dont like the term pre op because it presupposes that all transgirls wants the surgery).



My surgery is in November. I will be honest with you, its difficult finding a person who will love you as a girl..as who you are.



However, with that said, you will find him. My boyfriend is wonderful and he loves me more than anything in the world. I got 18 red roses from him monday and im in heaven when we're in bed and im cuddle right up on his left side. Nothing in the world is more beautiful than two people hopelessly in love.



You will get there. From one tgirl to another; you will. I promise. Keep your head up, girl!

Answer 2

You will be 18 soon enough, then you will be free, a legal adult, able to meet lots of men that would just be thrilled with you. 2 years may seem like a long time, but it's just the blink of an eye.



Take good care of yourself, study for school, learn things that will help you get a job and thrive. Don't worry about a boyfriend too much. Maybe you will be lucky, but teenagers are immature; so if anyone spurns you, don't let it affect you.

Answer 3

Yes, I would have no problem dating a pre-op transsexual. A lot of people ask about sex, but because I'm asexual I'm not going to have sex anyway (with anyone) so that's not an issue for me. Why would I care what genitals they have if they look like girls and are girls at heart?

Answer 4

There are more transsexual seekers than transsexuals.



Go away MX.



I'm not sure if I would. I might, but I definitely wouldn't go searching for that type of person in particular.

Answer 5

I'm 16 and gay, so no offense but I like my men completely masculine. Muscles REALLY turn me on. Some guys would definitely like it, you just have to find the right one <3

Answer 6

Been there, done that.

I Kissed a Gurl (with a penis) and I LIKED it.



Bought her a t-shirt that says "You can peek under my skirt......If you kiss what you find".



She loves it.





Sorry, I dont fit the parameters of the question. I am an "older" gent.

Answer 7

Depends on the person's preference. I date regardless of gender or whats in your pants. Its the personality that gets me.

Answer 8

i personally wouldnt mind, though tbh it would take a little getting used to. though im sure others, even if it doesnt gross them out, would find it too hard to deal with....



if someone really loves you, they wont mind.

Answer 9

dear friend so what it is not wrong.who sayed that Ur boy friend don't likes u.if u want u can add me as Ur friend.iam not a gay.

Answer 10

NO way.



That's just a preference and I don't deserve to get thumbed down for it.

Answer 11

What's a "pre-op transexual girl"? You are a boy, period. If you have a penis, or once had a penis but voluntarily castrated it, you are male. And while I have no problems with gay people and have and will continue to champion gay rights, I am straight, and I only date girls, so my answer to your question is a resounding "NO".