does bondage make me gay?

Question

I am a 15 year old male and bondage turns me on. I like domination and locker room scenes and I guess you can call it bullying or role-play. I feel like this is stereotypically what gay people do? So I just was wondering if I could still be straight.

On a side note, I get turned on by the CONCEPT of bondage. In other words it doesn't matter what gender is doing it, just the bondage itself gets me on.

Answer 1

No, bondage has nothing to do with being gay AT ALL

Answer 2

From my understanding people who enjoy bondage like the feeling of being at some one else's mercy. It is the feeling of hopelessness that this other person has full control of you to use you as they please that apparently gives the sexual high. Some guys like the feeling of being restrained as the other person sadistically used their body for their enjoyment either by inflicting pain or using your body for their sexual pleasure and may actually have the bonded person receiving pain and pleasure during the session. One moment they may be being spanked and the next moment their captor may be fondling their genitals making them feel real nice.

There are all different levels to bondage from being tied up naked and no pain just pleasure right through to severe pain and should be discussed how far you want to go before you consent to it. Generally they have a safe word which if they are going too far you can yell out so they know it is not part of the bondage and they should back off.

The other side of bondage is generally humiliation where the guy in bondage is treated like scum and forced to do things that guys would normally refuse to do as it belittles them.

I am sure straights are the main ones into bondage and likely to be at the mercy of a sadistic gay man who ties them up and uses their body in a way that most straight men would find abhorrent such as forcing the guy to suck his cock or even to be tied up and helpless as a gay man f#cks his butt as much as it is abhorrent to most straight men also gives them great sexual satisfaction. As far as if you are gay or not depends on whether you find females sexually attractive and want sex with them. If you do then you are not gay and just have a bondage fetish.

Answer 3

Being into bondage and being gay are NOT the same thing. Most gay people probably don't even do that.

Answer 4

Since you are allegedly 15-no comment.

Answer 5

No, not stereotypical gay act to do bondage. A tiny percentage of the population is into that of all sexual orientations. I'd doubt any more gay males are into it than hetero males or hetero females. First of all, you need to understand what "gay" means-- it is a slang term that ONLY means homosexual, or homosexual sex. A true homosexual has no sexual interest or romantic interest in the opposite sex. A bisexual person would enjoy sex or a romantic relationship with either sex. Heteros of course only like the opposite. Fact is most people are really bi-sexual or bi-curious, just few act upon it. At 15 many males will have strong bi-sexual curiosity, due to raging hormones. That tendency may stay with you for a few years or go away next year, or you may continue to be open minded and enjoy bisexual relationships all your life. All is fine.

Answer 6

No.

Answer 7

First off, there is no such thing as ""gay" people". No one is defined by how depraved they're currently acting. Secondly, no, liking "bondage" (strange that a 15 year old is thinking of these things...) does not make you a sodomite. You can do that with a girl.

Answer 8

Most people into bondage are heterosexual not homosexual. There is a subcurrent of people who enjoy bondage across the spectrum of sexuality but it is certainly not stereotypically gay. Being gay or straight has nothing to with your fetishes.