I had sex with my best friend while we were drunk. Does that make me a lesbian?

Question

My best friend (who is also a girl) and I had around 18 shots of Jaeger and we basically ended up having lesbian sex on the floor. Both us were completely naked. Prior to this nothing ever happened between us. We are both straight. We tell each other that we love each other all the time but, just in a friendly way. Hell, I have never even kissed anyone of the same sex until the jaeger took over. It keeps playing over and over in my mind. Both of us keep talking about how we can't believe we did each other. Am I a lesbian for doing this? Is it normal to lose all inhibitations and do your best friend?

Answer 1

It does NOT make you gay...



But it makes you one hell of an opportunist! lol don't worry about it, 18 shots of jaeger is an excuse to do almost anything!

Answer 2

No, you are not a lesbian. You two were just under the influence of alcohol. You two just ended up exploring each other's inhibitions. If the experience was done while you two were completely sober, then yes, you are a lesbian. But if the act happens again over drinks, then you should start questioning your sexuality then. But as long as you two talked it over, being that the both of you are friends, was a good step in confronting your actions. As long as you two are ok with what happened, then that all is what matters in maintaining your friendship instead of ending it over something I'm sure started out as innocent.

Answer 3

Well for one thing if you are asking this question then you are too young to drink. A 21 year old would not be asking this. If drinking makes you do things you normally would not be doing then maybe you should not drink. Also it does not make you gay. People experiment sometimes and that does not make them gay. If you understand true friendship then you will know that you and her are no longer best friends. You'll have crossed a line that should never be crossed with best friends. With some people anything goes with true best friends that includes sex. Some people have a messed up idea what the meaning of true best friend is.

Answer 4

Easy on the alcohol sweetie. See it already got you into trouble.

You both must have been a little curious before the alcohol, but alcohol lowers your inhibitions so you do things you wouldn't ordinarily do. One time does't MAKE you a lesbian. If you care for her and want to be with her in an intimate way, then you are a lesbian.

Answer 5

That's a lot of Jaeger o.0



With that amount, definitely no. You were just drunk as hell.

Answer 6

No, it makes you a bad drinker. Once when I was that drunk, apparently I was singing to a box of tissues. It's just the alcohol, lol. Don't sweat too much about it. If you both aren't too freaked out about it, then it can be a memory that you'll look back on and laugh.

Answer 7

She's your best friend, you obviously have some sort of emotional attachment to her. Just try to slow down and think about your feelings for her whether they're friendly or not. Maybe theres more, maybe the both of you were just h0rny. And don't forget to talk to your friend about it too.



EDIT: Thats a hell of a lot of alcohol! Be a little more responsible before I stay up at night worrying about you.

Answer 8

i think theirs a valuable lessons to be learn ed here don't drink to much alcohol because it gets you in trouble and can cause issues and confusion plus you also feel really horrible in the morning



Your most likely straight alcohol can change a person easily 8)

Answer 9

No. Blame it on the liquor. One time does not make you gay. If you keep on getting drunk to use it as an excues for having sex with your friends? Then maybe you're gay.

Answer 10

Honestly, you just sound curious! drunken actions arent evidence to suggest you are a lesbian. It just means you were drunk and enjoying yourself.

Answer 11

nope it's the beer that made you sex your best friend

Answer 12

FOR THE LAST TIME.

IF U ARE DRUNK AND EFF A GIRL, IT MAKES YOU A HORNY ALCOHOL DRINKER...

NOT LESBIAN!!

Answer 13

are u attracted to woman and not men???



sounds to me like ur just bi curious

Answer 14

no, you're still straight because you don't have any sexual attraction to girls at all. you might be bicurious tho.

Answer 15

your not gay it happens