crossdresser coming out?

Question

im 15 and want to come out to my mom as a crossdresser. im not gay or anything just am a little feminine. im not even sure if i want to but if i did what would i say, and she kind of knows ive taken from her so she just bout knows

Answer 1

Wow, I was in the same situation. It's good to talk to some of your girl friends about it. The ones that won't judge you, mind you. It gets so much easier to talk about and almost slips out in conversation with your mom. Just make sure she's calm and knows these 2 things definitely:



1)You're not gay.



2)You don't want to be a woman (sex change)



Other than that, good luck, bro.

Answer 2

I have to disagree with Rachel on a couple points. I believe if you are a crossdresser you need all the support you can get. Many crossdressers and transgendered women knew at a young age what they liked, needed and wanted. I responded to your other post and still feel you should tell your mother if that is the route you want to take.

Good luck

Answer 3

At your "tender" age of 15 - I seriously think that you should be more concerned about getting your education, and learning a few more things abouty 'life in general" instead of worrying about crossdressing.

You may THINK you want to crossdress or you have been reading a lot about this lifestyle, but btw, this is not a "game" to be played at.

Being a crossdresser / transvestite myself, I try to get accross to yougsters that they need to know all the aspects of this society - before they "claim" to be a crossdresser...

Any kid or individual can put on some femme apparel and make the statement that they are a crossdresser, but believe me, there's more to it than just that.

Emotionally, one has to think, act, and be prepared to accept things that are more feminine than one realizes.

Plus the fact that your so called peers are going to scorn you and you will be subjected to much ridicule that you will not be able to handle.

Only maturity brings the ability to act like,dress like, and be a woman / female, so again, put a few years on your age, and not be concerned at what you think you might want to be within this lifestyle.



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Answer 4

just come straight out and say it.

thats the easiest way i think