Can someone define "bi-curious" for me?

Question

It's said that if a girl likes guys but is fantasizing about girls she's bi-curious. And a guy who likes girls but is fantasizing about guys is bi-curious.

So... if you never dated either sex and are thinking of dating guys and are female, are you straight-curious? And vice versa?

Do you have to have been sexual with a person (or dated) to say you are straight, gay or bisexual?

I've never dated either sex, but have fantasized about both. Am I, all at the same time, possibly gay-curious, straight-curious and then possibly bi-curious?

I'm getting a headache... Although I've never been with either sex, I don't consider myself anything-curious. Just bisexual. Or *am* I curious since I haven't put my feelings "to the test"?

Answer 1

If you only fantasize about one sex, you are mono-curious.



If it's your same sex, you are mono-homo-curious.



If you also have a high IQ, you are mono-homo-genius.

Answer 2

Someone who is bi-curious does not identify as bisexual, but has an interest in both men and women to one degree or another. They may identify as heterosexual or homosexual, in most cases as a heterosexual person.



Like almost all attempts to define sexuality, there is some dispute over when the label of bi-curious is appropriate. However, it is typically accepted that a person can be considered bi-curious if....



1. they are contemplating, intrigued by, or otherwise attracted to the thought of crossing the boundaries of their typical sexual orientation and pursuing a romantic and/or sexual relationship with a member of the same sex (if their sexual orientation is heterosexual) or someone of the opposite sex (if their sexual orientation is homosexual).

2. or they are seriously considering identifying as bisexual, but have yet to do so.

Answer 3

I've never seen curious used toward a straight person solely interested in the opposite sex. It's implied they're always curious about the opposite sex.



When it's bi-curious, it's usually a straight person who hasn't had gay sex and is thinking of it, so they could be bi but they're not sure. Or, they're a bi-person who maintains straight relationships but has gay sex and doesn't care for a long-term gay relationship.

Answer 4

that's my definition of a thank you to properly known once you're a real bi: First, think of of sexual orientation as a spectrum with in basic terms having the aptitude to love and have an interest in men at one end and ladies individuals on the different. maximum all individuals fall someplace in the midsection – known – and those individuals that fall closest to the midsection can label themselves “bi,” in the event that they choose. If we basically took out the bi element of the spectrum, think of all bis landing someplace on it with some being greater fascinated in and in a position to love women individuals greater many times, and a few are greater fascinated in and in a position to like to adult men greater many times. Few bis sense a hundred% equivalent. 2d, many bis, after relationship the two sexes for a on an identical time as, many times finally end up coming up a call for one intercourse over the different, and that i don't see this any distinctive than coming up a call for redheads, and so on. 0.33, maximum bis I even have stated comparable matters with will say that it replace into very complicated transforming into up using fact they had crushes and have been in love with the two sexes faster or later. consequently, I strongly sense that being bi is greater a rely of the midsection, and the two your heart has the capacity to love the two sexes or it would not.

Answer 5

Bisexual: you have sex with men and women.



Bi-curious: you've done the deed with the opposite sex, but you are curious about having sex with the same gender. Once you do, you cross over from bi-curious to bisexual.

Answer 6

it's just a word to hide the real disgust of being a deviant in society. an euphemism, if you think about murder, does that make you a murderer? it's the action you take that tells the story. and I would not let any thought like that in my head. life is a fleeting moment in the expanse of time. if you wanna get nasty with a gurl and can't take it until you do, by all means, get it out of your system. "you only die once, and for such a long time" ( not mine, it's a quote)

Answer 7

Yes, you're just curious or attracted to the opposite sex. :)

Answer 8

your just plain curious.

good for you.

throw out the labels.

take some motrin.

and have fun dating anyone you'd like!

Answer 9

Its when your not bisexual, but you'll try it.