sexually confused i don't know who i like?

Question

im a 16 year old boy who is secretly bi and i go college, for a few years now ive always assumed i was bi, i didn't mind either men or women, but ive only ever fallen in Love with men before. i was once painfully in love with one of my male best friends but after a couple of years ive finally gotten through it. now im in college and ive made new friends and i think im starting to have feelings for someone else. but im not sure, im confused because all of a sudden i don't know if i like men or women, i don't know if i really like this new lad ive met. its stressing me out not being able to figure out whether im gay, straight or bi, recently i just cant tell, any advice?

Answer 1

If you've met someone you like, get to know them a little better. You don't have to buy them a ring or anything. Just relax. You're going to be fine, and hopefully, quite happy.

Answer 2

Pretty much the way lots of guys feel, dude, you just have to relax and not worry about what others think and go with your gut feelings. If you like this guy, then great, as long as he is bi or gay too. You have years to figure out sexuality, many people never really do so best to just sit back and take what seems "right' at the time. If you are comfortable, and happy then don't stress about whether you like guys or girls and don't worry about what others think. Just enjoy life as it comes, don't try to make it harder for yourself. Good luck.

Answer 3

Of course its normal,, you can get aroused by seeing someone of the same gender's body and still be straight. It's probably just a phase that'll pass :)

Answer 4

Look dude? Does it really matter? I mean I know what your going through, Honestly I do but once I said to myself " does sexuality really matter?" And the anwser of course is "no!" I feel so much better now. I really do, so I think if you go in with that manetality you will have so much more fun.



Maybe you should google "Pansexual" Maybe your that?

Answer 5

if you make decision, about whom you will have sex with, based on whom you like, then that is pansexual.

if you make a decision based on sexual arousal then then you would be homosexual, Bisexual.

Just look around at college and see what gets you sexually aroused. that is your orientation.

Answer 6

Who cares about titles. You like who you like. Just enjoy yourself and be safe.