Is it ok for a young guy to really like older men?

Question

I am 16 currently and have never done anything sexual and dont plan on it til imat least 17 because of the legal age of consent which i got from

http://aspe.hhs.gov/hsp/08/sr/statelaws/summary.shtml

Im not really sure what got me into likeing older men but i have a much stronger desire for mature (30-50) than young. Not an exact age group seeing as some people age much quicker.
Anyone else have/had that same feeling?

Answer 1

John it isnt clever and it isnt advisable for you to do anything sexually with older men OR older women because some of them WILL definatley take advantage of a younger guy. Try to ignore these feelings and to stick to people around your own age group at least until you are 21 or 22. The probelm with older people taking advantage of younger people especially if these younger ones are NOT SURE about their sexuality ( and Im not suggesting you're not sure but some people your age are still unsure wether they are straight, gay or bi or are still only experimenting) ------->> there shouldnt be any outside influence as to change a young person's perspective on sex and when a much older person then yourself comes into the picture and would like sex, MANY will not take into consideration the tender age of the younger person or that they are not yet mature enough to deal with all the feelings that sex and relationships involve and these older people just for their own selfish wants and needs will RUIN the young person's future or emotions.

DONT DO IT. Wait until you know who and what you are and Are sure an older person WILL NOT and CANNOT take advantage for their own selfish needs.. I recommend waiting at least till age 21 or 22 but I personallyI do not think relationship with much older people will work for you- wether you are gay bi straight or whatever!! It will not work because you two are on a different stages in your lives ( they might want marriage, or kids - you wanna party and get drunk and go out every night and they maybe inclined to be a homebody -->> just because someone looks younger doesnt mean inside they are as young as 19 and can go out most nights they may go to sleep at 10 while u on the other hand want to go out till 2 every night, ok so they look good but they are on a DIFFERENT level internally- this is just an analogy but you get what I mean!).

Answer 2

A Zeus-Ganymede relationship. Like Batman and Robin. Or in search of a father figure. Whatever. As long as it's consensual, whatever floats your boat. Make hay while the bloom of youth lingers on your cheeks. You're bound to make some middle aged guy happy.

Answer 3

I'm 21 and my guy is 37 and its excellent.



We are smitten and can't stay apart, have so much fun together, he keeps me grounded, I keep him young, we both have an amazing time in bed and know exactly how to totally turn each other on.

He's cool with me going out with my own age friends occasionally cause he knows I won't stray, he means to much to me.



Don't listen to the negatories here, you have to try it for yourself just watch out for yourself.



@Viva I was the one who DT'ed because you speaking from ignorance and fear. Risk taking is part of relationships. People take chances - thats how we learn. Many are great outcomes, some are not. THATS RELATIONSHIPS NO MATTER WHAT AGE.



Christ he didn't say he was looking for someone to marry. Chill out.

Answer 4

I'm the same way as you with my taste in men. So you aren't alone, its fines if you are of legal age. Age is just a number

Answer 5

follow your desire for each his own.

age discrimination is very strong. You are sure to get some snide remarks but follow your heart always!

Answer 6

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