I worked with someone and she relieved she was afraid she liked girls. I tried to help her but she was worried where she's from it's not okay. I said that just cuz I'm white and from the us doesn't mean my family or friends have accepted me. She told me she liked a her best friend who like both guys and girls. She would hit on my best friend whom I was in love with but she has a husband and kids and freaked out when she found out. Anyways I got a text the other day from this former coworking saying hi so I said it back then she said she missed me I said the same. she said I needed a girlfriend I asked why and her answer didnt make sense she speaks spanish but her english is good but not writing. she is nice but I'm afraid she just wants sex. she said she wants to date me but I'm not so sure. I know she's afraid for liking girls. I asked her to hangout our next day off we both have which is sunday. But I am worried she wont come. I think she wont come because all of a sudden I'm about to have a roommate it wasn't planned but someone got kicked out so I said they can move in the spare room. But since the roommate knows her I dont think she'll come I think she'll be afraid. I just want to hangout as friends and see what happens. But part of me thinks she just wants me to be her experiment which I dont want to be at all. She's nice and funny but sometimes its hard which her speaking spanish though her english has gotten good sometimes we still have trouble and my spanish is well horrible. my niece sho watches dora is probably better at spanish. how do I know if she really likes? I am trying to learn spanish. would it work if she did like me with the langue barrier. I have no idea what to do. I dont want to scare her off just take it slow but I'm afraid the roommate will scare her off. when I made these plans with her there was going to be no roommate. I have no idea what to do. I cant tell anyone at work even though she doesnt work there. but it's not there business. what do I do? What would you do?