Question:
I'm a straight female who is absolutely in love with a gay !?
Taylor
2009-07-26 17:44:37 UTC
I'm a straight female who is absolutely in love with a gay man he shows total interest in me AT TIMES kissing me hugging me we've even slept together but he is always checking out guys says he needs sex from them....but then a couple hours later he tells me hes going to turn straight....I'm not sure whats going on he introduced me to his family but just as Taylor but when i refused to meet his family he got really upset and was like that's messed up i think its time u meet them he also gets very very jealous if another guy shows interest in me at all and he always wants to be around me he baby sits my kid while i work and when i tell him thank u he says its no problem baby and then he'll kiss me very passionately he sends me random texts about us sleeping together and things like that so i guess my question is i need advice on whats going on and if i should continue to try to be with him or if he is very confused and needs to be left alone for a while so he can figure things out or what please help me!
Five answers:
2009-07-26 18:22:26 UTC
He's not gay and he's not confused, he will always like men and women because he is bi-sexual. So, if you like sharing him with another guy, which you should because you said you "love" him, so share him with that other guy. If you love someone, accept them for everything they really want to do rather than stopping them from doing it. Don't force him to choose between you and his own personality.
*Julia*
2009-07-26 17:54:08 UTC
It's sounds like he may be bisexual. He's showing attraction to both female (you) and males (other men). You should really talk about it WITH HIM to really know what's going on.
RaTz
2009-07-27 08:20:12 UTC
It's hard to know if he's actually bisexual (which is good for you), or if he just WANTS to be straight and loves you platonically (which will end in heartbreak).
2009-07-26 17:52:03 UTC
He's GAY, and he always will be GAY. This means that you will be a side adventure forever.............he needs help, here's what you do, you sing him this song

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AXHJ7bvYgI&feature=related
ALEX S
2009-07-26 17:54:38 UTC
Tell him how you feel. You might get lucky.


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